Creating Space for Success

Whatever you’d like to attract into your life, you need to be available for it, you need to have space for it. And when it comes you need to be able to take it fully.

If you are not successful in something, feel it, may be your energy flows somewhere else, in some other direction? And feel it, may be it is here for you, may be you just do not take it?

Attracting success into your relationship. If you want to attract more success into your relationship, you may want to first ask yourself a question: Rate it from 1 to 10 – how much of you is available for your partner when you are spending time together? This is just for yourself to feel how the things are on some deeper level. You may do the next step and feel where your attention really goes. Family constellations work shows that your energy might flow away from your successful relationship into some other directions, e.g. your energy might be directed towards your mother, your previous relationship, or your aborted children (if any) instead of your partner or children. Or it might be directed towards something you do not even understand, what is it. As family constellations show, this something is usually an event in your or your family past (even many generations ago). In either case your energy is serving the past, not the present. And this makes you unavailable to your partner and children.To attract more success into your relationship you need to work on freeing your energy from the past to serve the now. And family constellations is the work to do it. Another thing to work on is positioning yourself properly in relation to the past. And the most important here is your attitude towards your parents. To attract more success into your relationship you need to take your mother and your father just the way they are. This step is fundamentally important for achieving any kind of success in life. We take life form our mother and father. If we do not take from them then we do not know how to take at all. To take your successful relationship, you need to learn taking from your parents first. And again, family constellations is the work to do it. Once you’ve learned how to take from your parents, you need to agree to grow up, to live your own life your own way. What is important about growing up? The important thing is that there are not just us. Behind us there is standing our whole family and our past. Growing up means agreeing on having bad conscience when allowing ourselves living our life our own way regardless of what our family past was. To take your successful relationship fully you need to grow up.

Attracting success into your professional life. There is not much of a difference from attracting success into your relationship as now you want to improve your relationship either with your job, money, or your business. This is, again, the same, to attract more success into your professional or business life you need to work on freeing your energy from the past to serve the now, and you need to take your mother and father just the way they are, and then you need to grow up. And again, family constellations are very helpful in working on any of it.

Attracting success into your health. Your health, the same way as your relationship, or your professional life might be available for you, just there might be no space near you available for it. How is it possible? Again, the same way: your energy might be busy serving something in the past, or you might still need to learn taking from your parents, or there is still a need to grow up. Very often people are ill because of some past traumatic event. Family constellations show that illnesses often point to someone involved into the past traumatic event. In other words, our illnesses often serve the past. Family constellations help working on bringing illnesses to the light, directing people to their successful health.

Elena Nesterenko
Life Love Success 🙂