Rules from the Yesterday
Many rules, that we carry with us, belong to the yesterday. They do not serve the day today. They make our life heavy. They prevent us from being able to react to what life is giving to us right here and right now. Part of the growth is to leave them behind.
Those rules were relevant when there was their time. And life never stands at the same spot, always changing and evolving. Life is a river. If you are not a river yourself, you are not in the now. Whatever does not serve the now to stay where it belongs.