Do You Know Who You Are? What are Your Skills?
There’s an old tale of how an orphaned tiger cub is raised by a flock of sheep. It grows up as a sheep, without any awareness that it is a tiger. One day a very old tiger sees the young tiger moving sheep-like with the flock. He separates the young tiger from the flock and chases him to the edge of a lake where he can look at his reflection in the water. There and then he sees the resemblance between himself and the old tiger, and realizes that he is not a sheep. (From the stories by Osho)
When you live not like yourself, but like the others (often like your family members), when you copy their behavior, lives, destinies, you don’t learn, who you actually are. Bert Hellinger says about the Family Constellations work: don’t facilitate like me, facilitate like you, this is the strongest. Or, live like you do.
Many of us, we do not live like ourselves, we don’t know our natural skills. Why? For different reasons. More about it on family constellations workshops:
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Elena Nesterenko
Family Constellations Facilitator