Facilitator – Taking Sides

If a facilitator takes sides he cannot help.
“When a client says: “I was raped” or “I am a victim of abuse”, something happens inside us. We take sides. That is why we cannot help. If I move with the Spirit-Mind, I see the perpetrators as beings in the same level as the victims. I see them as human beings who have different entanglements, but the same right to belong. When I give all of them a place in my heart, I am becoming in tune with the Spirit Mind and receive the understanding and strength that move forward.” Bert Hellinger
(From the Level 1 Hellinger Institute Toronto, Including the Excluded)