Are You Really in the Relationship?

If you are married, or have a partner this really does not mean you are in this relationship. Because you might be in love (entangled) with something from you family past. And this way you simply are not available to your partner, you simply even do not see him or her, your energy is directed away from your partner. If you close your eyes and try to really see your partner you might notice that you cannot even see him/her. This means you are not really in this relationship. And for many problems that happen between you and your partner do not rush blaming your partner or even yourself. You both might be not the real reason for the problems. And blaming will not help. What might help is working on you family past traumas.