27 Dec

Choosing your topic for the constellation. “Me and My Partner/Spouse” issue.

I’ve seen many cases of disappointment after constellation work when people choose to work on the topic “me and my partner/spouse”.
So, there are some problems in relationship and people would like to work on them.
Such constellations often are 2 roles work (her and him, no one else is required) with the result “pure love” in between of two of them: two people hugging and not even the thinnest paper can be squeezed in between. Such a love.
Why is that? Read More →

27 Dec

Happiness

-Mother. Our happiness depends on how we accept our mother.
-Courage. To be happy or in grief we need a lot of courage. This is much easier to be depressed than happy or in grief. When depressed we do not exchange with the world and we have no happiness to lose, no pain to suffer from. Easy, but we do not live our life this way.
Why do we need a lot of courage to be fully happy? Read More →

27 Dec

Father

This is what Bert Hellinger says about the Father:
-Adult. Independence.
With the Father only we find our way to become an independent responsible adult. When we are born, we completely associate ourselves with the Mother, we feel like we are the same and we actually are the same. This is OK till certain age (Hellinger says till the age of 6). Read More →

26 Dec

Mother. Father. Personal life success.

The mother is our first body to body contact in this life. If not accepting the mother we are not OK with the body to body contacts; body to body contact is a problem. And of course, if having a good relationship with the mother, we have no problem with such type of contacts (unless there are any entanglements). In this case a sexual contact is a pleasant experience. But having a good contact with the mother only is not enough to have a successful personal life. Read More →

26 Dec

Mother

A while ago, when reading Bert Hellinger’s books, I was not sure why he speaks of the mother a lot more than about anyone else. And at the same time he would always highlight that the father is _very_ important to us. But still most of the talks was (is) always about the mother. I could not understand.
Now I can share something about it. Read More →

26 Dec

Better than the Parents

How is it in general to be better than the others?
In other words “I am better than you” sounds like:
I am not like you = I am not one of you = I am separated = I am lonely = I am alone.
This seriously affects our social life. Also our relationship. Also our work. Because “giving and taking” is not working as it should. It also affects our health at least because the rest is not working and not only because of this. Read More →

26 Dec

What we Know and what we Live

We often know and understand something really well with our mind (brain) and it looks like it is enough. Well, it is not enough. When we actually live through this something, when we live trough every energy motion related to this, only then we actually get this. After that we truly unite with this something and vibrate together in this unity. After that we know this something with every cell in our body. From that point this knowledge is not just something that we only know but it is something that we actually live.

26 Dec

Illnesses. Why do we work on our health but still cannot get cured? Healing the roots of the illnesses.

So, why do we work on our health problems and yet cannot get cured having chronic illnesses through our entire life? And why do the symptoms improve for some time only, remain the same, relocate or get worse? Because such situations naturally happen when working directly on this hurting parts of us, on our body, which seems obvious. But acting this way we do not often touch the root of the problem. Read More →