01 Sep

Abortions. Birth Control Loops. Why Do Children Have Depression?

A few words about depression. Depression often occurs when a person wants to die. This deep process happens at the soul level (or subconscious level if it’s more convenient). Why does a person want to die? Often, because someone beloved has passed away. And not just died, but nobody regards that person anymore. And to be more precise, others neither see, nor want to behold his soul anymore.

Abortions and Loops

Modern methods of contraception, Read More →

05 Aug

Joy

“I would like to say a few words about joy. I see how immediately brighten the faces. Once I wrote one aphorism: “The problem is difficult – the solution is joyful.” This joy, if has settled in us, lights up when we communicate with others, no matter how difficult our problem was.
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06 Jun

Guilt and Shame

Семейные Расстановки в Торонто

Feeling guilty or ashamed makes us ill.
Recognizing your own mistakes does not give you anything.
Taking responsibility for your own actions, accepting your past the way it was, without wishing to change anything; opening your heart with love to it – this is how to get over and move ahead (from the books by Bert Hellinger).

Guilt and shame have even more further-reaching consequences than just personal. Endless guilt the same as never-ending shame are directed against the life, and they harm not only the person but the whole family system. You can work on this and learn more about it on our constellations workshops: contact.

06 Jun

Why Do We Get Ill? Why Don’t We Live Happily? The First Order Of Love.

Family Constellations Toronto

Why is our life the way it is? We want to be happy in our family life, lucky in love, healthy, professionally successful. We do not want our children to repeat our mistakes and be ill the same way as we are. These are regular life situations and issues. Sometimes it seems just amazing when it has been decided that from today everything will be different. But no, it appears something is not letting us through. What is that?

The Roots of Illnesses

Let’s discuss the illnesses first. If someone gets sick, the first what seems should be treated is, of course, the body. However, the body is not always the place, where the roots of the illnesses are located. Read More →

27 Dec

Victims and Perpetrators. Where is is safe for the descendants?

Victims and Perpetrators
Where is is safe for the descendants?
And where is it unsafe?

This is safe
to see and accept both sides of the past situation/conflict. Both, victims and perpetrators. A victim energy attracts its perpetrator. And a perpetrator energy finds its victim. They meet and neutralize (balance) each other. Like in a chemical reaction. The unbalance on the family level is actually created by the other family members, who don’t want to see one of the parties. When seeing both parties, this creates a state of the neutral balance. This is safe. Read More →

27 Dec

Easy Ways of Dropping your Frequency

Easy Ways to Drop your Frequency:
– Questioning the life
– Blaming
– Judging
Any ways questioning, why things are the way they are (horrible sometimes), or blaming – all this comes from judging. First you judge, and take sides, and decide that things could have been different, better. Then you start either blaming or screaming out your “Why?!?”. This is what drops your frequency and gets you disconnected from the source of your power. Read More →

27 Dec

Bert Hellinger as a Peacemaker

Did you know this about Bert Hellinger?
Yes, all his work is intended for reconciliation. His work helps to heal soul traumas either for one person (or a family) or even for groups of people and countries. “Big conflict” is one of his books dedicated exactly to explain the origins of big conflicts. In this book are discussed many very important things about how big conflicts start and how they grow into wars. He also explains about heroes and more. These all are separate topics to discuss.

27 Dec

And Once More About Fathers

Family Constellations, Method by Bert Hellinger

The more I look at life with the question “Who are our fathers for us?”, the more answers I discover. And these new answers give me the feeling of balance. Here are some of them:
Balance. The simplest thing: we need our fathers to balance our feminine in us. Why do we need it? We need it for many reasons:
To Stop Looking Around Through “A Mother’s Eyes” Read More →

27 Dec

Why Some Relationships are Overwhelming?

When a child gets born, mother and child they are such a close oneness, they are so dissolved one into another, they are like one person.
And we all need this experience in our life to be able to grow up. Without this we will be looking for it in the people around us.
For example, without this experience we will be trying to get dissolved in our spouse, which is very overwhelming for him/her.
Will such a relationship be happy, successful?