Category Archives: Basics of Family Constellations

We often know and understand something really well with our mind (brain) and it looks like it is enough. Well, it is not enough. When we actually live through this something, when we live trough every energy motion related to this, only then we actually get this. After that we truly unite with this something and vibrate together in this unity. After that we know this something with every cell in our body. From that point this knowledge is not just something that we only know but it is something that we actually live.

The first order of help:
The first order of help assumes that we only give what we have ourselves, and we expect only what we need and what we will accept.
The second order of help:
The second order of help assumes that we follow the circumstances and we only support the client as much as the circumstances permit. Such help is very restrained, but there is strength in it.
The third order of help: Adult-to-Adult Read More →

The wise ones accept this world the way it is, without any intention or fear.
They agree to inconstancy and they do not try to reach beyond the death point.
They live in harmony and they interfere in something only when this is required by the life.
They can understand if something is possible or not, because they do not have any intentions.
Wisdom is the result of ones’ long work and discipline, but the wise ones do not waste any energy to become wise.
Wisdom is always on its way and it reaches its goals not because it searches for it. It just grows.
Bert Hellinger. The Orders of Help.

Family constellations work is a method intended to reveal blockages preventing us from living successful and healthy life. The best way to understand this work is to live trough it, to experience it. Family constellations work is your personal way no one can live through  except you.