Mother

A while ago, when reading Bert Hellinger’s books, I was not sure why he speaks of the mother a lot more than about anyone else. And at the same time he would always highlight that the father is _very_ important to us. But still most of the talks was (is) always about the mother. I could not understand.
Now I can share something about it.

_We receive everything from the mother._Everything._
The whole life. Even our father we receive from her.
Our way to the father is through the mother.
Our way to anything in this life is through the mother.
If we do not move to the mother (deny her) we cannot get the father. We cannot get anything in this life.
The mother is our first in this life body to body contact. Denying the mother we do no know how to deal with the body to body contacts. We might not like it or it might be challenging for us. This has a serious impact on our personal life and our parenthood. This is the very first and the very basic thing.
(From the Level 1 at Hellinger Institute Toronto)