Mother. Father. Personal life success.

The mother is our first body to body contact in this life. If not accepting the mother we are not OK with the body to body contacts; body to body contact is a problem. And of course, if having a good relationship with the mother, we have no problem with such type of contacts (unless there are any entanglements). In this case a sexual contact is a pleasant experience. But having a good contact with the mother only is not enough to have a successful personal life.

Why? Because if staying near the mother only we are kids. And a childish adult does not know much about being responsible. This easily results in changing intimate partners often.
Now comes the father to help us with this. The father is the one who helps the child to become self-sufficient, independent, responsible. This is how the father’s masculine energy works within us. Having a good relationship with the father, we can take responsibility for our life. And this affects our personal life in a very good way. In this case sexual contacts are not just a pleasant game, but this is something we are capable to take responsibility for. To get mature and to succeed in our personal life we have to find our way to the father.
The mother is the key for the child in finding the way to the father. The way to the father lies through the mother. Often I see very beautiful, gifted, but unhappy people, who change their sexual partners often or have a few of them at a time. Those people are often in contact with the mother, but not with the father. Such situations happen when parents are divorced and the child does not know the father. And not only when the child does not know, but when he/she is not looking for the father, is not interested in him. Or this also happens when the mother blocks the child from coming to the father because she is not in a good relationship with the father. If the mother no matter what has a good attitude towards her children’s father, this helps her children to make their movement towards the father. But still, if the mother is against the father, the child can resolve the problem by herself/himself. It requires more courage and takes more effort but this is doable.
Of course, this is not the only scenario why the personal life might not work or why people would change intimate partners often. There can be many other reasons for that, like family situations in the past. Here I am talking about one of the basic things that must work in order for us to be able to succeed in our personal life.