Remembering For the Future

We have to _give a look_ into the past in order to get the future.
When we _keep looking_ into the past we lose our future.
The English say “Re-member”.
I find this word very explaining.
When the dead (but not the circumstances) get their places in our souls, they go with us into the future.
There is such a type of memories, that is like an infinite blaming.
In such memories there are always the good ones and the bad ones.
This is to prepare for the next conflict (problem).
This way the dead are not seen with love.
“The Long Way” by Bert Hellinger, Gabrielle ten Hovel